Love, Money, Dating and Making It Work in a Recession

Things are tight, y’all. Although it appears to be getting much better.

The other day, I had a woman—with her kids in the car—ask me for gas money just so she could make it home. It broke my heart, but it was also a reminder: we’re all feeling this economy in one way or another. Some folks are just barely holding it together, and others are still doing well.

If you’ve got a family, now is the time to pull together. I know in my house, my husband usually spoils me rotten—but the other day, he asked me to help out more. And you know what? I didn’t mind one bit. Because if he didn’t need it, he wouldn’t ask. And when things are flowing, he’s the first to tell me, “Baby, just chill.”

Relationships—whether you’re married, dating, or just getting to know someone—don’t have to crumble under financial stress. If you meet a guy you like, don’t let the cost of fancy dates keep you from connecting. Go grab lunch together. Cook a meal side-by-side and watch a movie on the couch. Pack some sandwiches and head to the park for a picnic.

Finances should never be the reason you don’t date—but they also shouldn’t be the reason you stop putting in effort. Love doesn’t have to cost a lot, but it should still feel intentional. So get creative, add a little sparkle to the simple moments, and remember: the best memories aren’t always tied to the biggest price tag.